If only he did that before trying to pick up women.Just as they turn to Sun Tzu's honored text for military guidance, they can sharpen their dating skills by adapting the good general's advice.

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Keep in mind that there is some humor in here, but the advice is all real. Lie shamelessly one moment, the next moment be completely, selectively, honest. In seduction it is better to receive than to give, in making love it is better to give than to receive.

One moment pretend to want them, the next pretend to not want them. Feed off your conquests for food, money, and most importantly, for access to more women.

by Vatican I've read Sun Tzu's "The Art of War" dozens of times and it's only recently that I feel it's become ingrained in my mind. Persistence without flexibility is asinine, persistence with flexibility is gold. Once you see victory is assured, draw it out--this is foreplay. Listen to those who are successful, ignore the others. A cool drink tastes better after she hasn't had one for a while. Getting them to chase you by taking something they want is called feeding off them for baits--this is the peak of efficiency. Make sure she spends more time thinking of you than you spend thinking of her. The more women and options you have, the more indifference you have and more rested, full, and content you are.

Here is my version of Sun Tzu's basic principles, adapted for this site. Befriend their friends, go to where they cannot help but be. Know everything about them but be unknowable to them. Be sometimes subtle, sometimes blunt, always unpredictable. Strike like rocks on eggshells, always strike a weaker power with your strong, content, indifferent power. This is called being unpredictable to increase intensity and this is called making them wait to create anticipation, too. Never work on any less than two women at any one time. Let the place you are in with her intensify her experience of you.

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A woman might not be an enemy to conquer--but she is a prize to win over.Play from uphill--always care about the outcome less than them. Get them to chase you by taking something they want, by putting them in danger of losing something, by showing excellence, by giving them competition. Be always ready to strike at a moment's notice from behind a mask of icy composure and flexible, impossible to pin down, subtlety. In a group the only two of any value to you are the strongest and the weakest. Take away the attention of her friends to make her chase you. Get them out of their turf, they will need you more. Be excellent but, to the outside world, formless and unknowable. At the actual moment of making a move, being formless is counterproductive--formlessness is for before, when actually striking you must be hard as a rock. When they are tired, empty, and hungry they will sense your power and want to attach themselves to you.At the beginning of the day, you’re going to roll over and realize that three 4’s doesn’t really make a 12.As much as you’d like to console yourself about the night before with a beer or five, there are some things that even beer can’t fix. Our friend Eric Rogell (you know him better as The Bachelor Guy) deconstructed Sun Tzu’s Art of War and applied it to something much more volatile and violent than war – women.By dissecting Sun Tzu's original text, extracting his core wisdom, and applying it to picking up women, this book teaches you how to win the battle of the sexes.