With passing time, though, she will need less and less proof (if you manage to pass her tests most of the time) and feels safe knowing that you are in fact a man with a backbone, and when needed, can support her.

That’s what a woman really wants – to feel safe knowing her man can take care of her.

Nevertheless, should you fail these tests, she will feel that something is off and .

Hell, there could be a woman standing behind you right now… Basically, testing is a screening tool to see if you have strength of character (or backbone, if you prefer this phrasing).

For her, it is a way to see how you would behave in certain situations.

So, instead of worrying about this small factor in attraction, you should shift your focus to more important matters – demonstrating that you are actually boyfriend material.

But if you just met a girl and aren’t in for the long-term, passing her tests will definitely set you apart from others.

If you manage to stay calm and collected and not let her behavior dictate yours, she will eventually warm up to you (of course, sometimes nothing works because she really is a mean bitch). If you don’t let her behavior affect yours in any way, you will pass her test.

By now you are probably pretty eager to know how women test you. The one thing you should avoid at all costs, though, is to get too paranoid and take everything that a girl says or does as a test. If you start to take every little thing as one, it will backfire on you terribly.

If you already knew this or just became aware of it now, the fact remains the same – everyone of us has at some point in our lives been tested by a woman.

However, the problem isn’t that most of us aren’t aware of this fact, but that we don’t even recognize when we are being tested. But all jokes aside; to know when you are being tested, you first have to understand what exactly a test is, then learn to recognize one and finally how to react to it.

If you manage to pass her tests constantly, she will categorize you as an alpha male and feel attraction for you.

If not, she will categorize you as a wimp and lose interest (if there was any to begin with).

This means she might start to ignore you or won’t react to you the way you are used to.