I have been back on the dating scene for about two years now.

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However, when he thinks that he is the only candidate and there is no competition, he will think you have nothing else to do but to wait for him, so he won’t make you a priority and it will show in his behavior.

Men don’t like it when women date multiple men because if you are not sleeping with him, he will feel chumped because he’ll assume you are sleeping with the other guy.

If I find out later on that she is dating other men, and I am already into her, I would probably demand that she stop seeing the other guys if she wants to continue dating me.

Tasha: In my experience, if a man knows you are dating him and others, he will make you a priority in order to win you over.

If you are sleeping with him, he will believe that you are also sleeping with the other guy, plus him, so now you are a slut. We are deciding; the same way that guys date multiple women. It is not an easy thing to do, to decide on the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I never had more than one date with someone I didn't like. There's always going to be someone you connect with more.

Men hate to compete, especially for a woman – they just make me sick. Men just want to be the only one, while they run around dating multiple women. But I was never going to be serious with him until he made that move.

And when they do pick one, they are hoping that they chose the best candidate. Then they try to change the "candidate." If you have never done this…and I'm not asking you to answer this question. I know you're right, I have seen women do that.

So why shouldn't we be afforded the same opportunity? But have you never, ever taken a guy for a ride just because you can and all along had your mind made up that he is not the one? Most of the time women do that because of their experiences.

Julian: Come on women - you guys are the ones that end up deciding if you will date the man again. So why date more than one man if, from the start, you may know which guy you’re going to most likely end up with? Wrap up (Anique): For the most part, I don’t think men and women will ever quite agree on this topic.

There seems to be an obvious double-standard regarding the rules of dating for men and the rules of dating for women.

But the way my attention span is set up I don't think I can commit to it for very long.