My desire for you is to connect in a sexually intimate way that pleases both of you in quantity and in quality. The goal is to find a healthy sexual balance of quantity and quality that fits for both the husband and the wife.

She either: a) has had, is having, or is considering having an affair, or b) will eventually leave the marriage, or c) lives sexually unfilled and masturbates (which leaves her unfulfilled), despite this she remains.

As explained in scenario A, action does need to be taken.

I do still love her and wish to remain married to her.

Outcome For Scenario B: Wife lives an existence in marriage where she is sexually deprived.

This blog is focusing on the married group of couples who there is truly barely to no sexual intimacy.

Thus, quality is lacking because quantity is lacking.

Thus, there is no experience of quality enhancement as quantity is little to non existent.

Case Scenario A: I am not interested in being sexually intimate with my husband. Outcome For Scenario A: Husband lives an existence in marriage where he is sexually deprived.

Feeling sexually deprived in marriage is not uncommon.

The myth is that it is only married men who feel sexually deprived.

As the years have progressed, he does leave me alone now . Without sexual intimacy in marriage, the person feels unloved, unwanted.